That corner room is mine

Knock Knock....Ahh! not again yaar. Every evening whenever i tried to sleep, there would intermittent knocking at the door. It's not because I am very popular or most sought after but the problem is that my room is at the corner of the so-called squared LakeView hostel and is nearest to mess or the nearest exit point for my wingies. For everyone, it's just a one time or twice a day but for me I don't know how many times. Everyone knocks during dinner time, but this doesn't mean that everyone is desiring to dine with me; it's just because my room is at the corner and I can't do a thing against this. But there is at-least a benefit for me where I am the closest to the mess or the exit point. And never get late to class because that single knock in the morning by atleast a one make my day.
But all these above experiences make me realizing the fact that may be one way or other, whenever we are hurting someone even for once but it may be that he/she is being hurt by many others. And if under that circumstances, he/she reacts against you; you should not confront back but instead try to solve his problem by listening to him. In normal day to day life, what i feel is that we are trying to take benefits from others or knowingly or unknowingly hurting someone. Here, I am not saying not to take benefits but atleast not using them just for our good. It may be possible that someone is frustrated just because of its position or location etc. But there are also benefits associated with that and we just have to realize the benefits and manage the ill-effects.