Importance....

When i was in school i believe that what appreciable by others is the most important job/task or dream to be achieved. Taking the example of taking science and practicing more mathematics and obtaining higher marks in those, as it would going to be appreciated by batchmates, teachers, parents and more important parent's friends and relatives.
After then i went to college, and then recognized that achieve what is best available among the choices available to you and again the motivational factor up to some extent is the society and the people residing around you and the priority of maoney also focussed mainly towards the society. Then come a day, when told by the steno of the HOD of my department "DECIDE YOUR PRIORITIES AS PER YOUR DREAM NOT AS PER YOUR RELATIONS & SOCIETY". At the same day i realized that almost my entire life i have seen others around me following the same what i was told to avoid. Silently and quietly i sat one day and started deciding what i really want to do in my life and came across four objectives and then prioritize them and then started planning to achieve the same and in the course i realized that society and relations stands nowhere. It's the priority that makes you leave the iims even that motivate you to live life in the dark for a while to shine like the morning rising sun.

opportunities.....and you

Never before i have realized the meaning of this word "opportunity". Or it may be because never before i have been stuck in such a situation where you have number of roads waiting to be followed and you have to decide the one. It is very much true that it's depends on your choice, your dream of future in academics. But what will happen when educational dream as well as your personal real life dream "contrasting to your first one" come in the way of each other. Of all many of the opportunities are good for you but you have to choose the one that best suits your needs satisfying both the dreams up to some extent or you can follow one among the twos neglecting the second. Talking of a situation where to be with your gf you have to choose the job out of the two opportunity of joining the job or joining the iim. It looks ridiculous that you are leaving the IIM and joining the job, but here comes the real decision making capability out of all the opportunities available to you as well as discovering new one that best suits your need. You can either take a chance on yourself that if i am capable of clearing the iim once i can do it twice "the next year" or you can look for other fiels like administrative services. It seems very depressing that you are choosing UPSC over IIMs but it all depends upon your will as well as on your self motivation towards the newer and the better one. And you are doing all this to your (never know whether he\she is faithful enough) soulmate. But you know life is about taking chances of which we indians are not good in. I am doing the same, betting on my abilities and determination.

Real life........

We are taught from our childhood to read and learn as much as you can to fulfill your every dream to earn a lot and earn respect. While going on the path of the same teaching we learn the ideal world, learn the ideal situation and learn to live without barriers. It's the school/college only where our parents our teacher never check us on mingling with our muslim. christian (or any religion) batchmates. Never at this stage our parents advice us to make friends of same caste or community. Then why after passing from these institutes they starts expecting the same which in previous they never forced upon. All the beliefs shatter at this stage, it doesn't matter whether you are a nit'ian or iit'ian or from a normal college you all will be treated the same on question of loving a muslim or an another community's soul.
At the iit level what's the thinking during the entry into this prestigious institute is that "now every dream of mine will come true". But this is not something to be boasted upon on the orthodox feeling of the society. Long back society was influenced and hierarchy was decided on the basis of education. Education was at the centre of stage of this world of drama. Still all the beliefs of our society was inherited from that time only but the role of education shifted to the back stage to the only role of earning for survival. What i think the only remedy for this "Don't pass the same feeling to the next generation" and "Try try try and more try until you succeed whether against society or orthodox thinking of your dear ones".